Obsessed With Her. Come back to yourself. A book about self-worth, boundaries, and choosing the life you deserve. Your energy is your power. Obsessed With Her is a reminder to choose yourself — to set higher standards, honor your peace, and create a life that feels aligned, abundant, and deeply yours.
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Come back
to yourself.

A book about self-worth, boundaries, and choosing the life you deserve.

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Your energy is your power.

Obsessed With Her is a reminder to choose yourself — to set higher standards, honor your peace, and create a life that feels aligned, abundant, and deeply yours.

Obsessed With Her

Come back to yourself.

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Inside the book

What If You Became
Obsessed With Her?

How many hours have you spent thinking about a man who probably wasn't spending nearly as many hours thinking about you? Reading the same short text again and again, looking for a meaning that might not be there. Wondering why his energy changed. Trying to figure out why he hasn't called.

I know that woman. I've been that woman.

And one day I had to ask myself a question that changed the way I looked at relationships: What would happen if I poured all of this energy into myself?

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All the time I spent trying to understand him. All the patience I gave him. All the excuses I made for him. All the love I wanted to give him. What if I gave all of that to her? Me.

That is where Obsessed With Her begins. This book isn't about hating men. It isn't about pretending you don't care. And it definitely isn't about becoming cold, unavailable, or playing games so a man will chase you.

I still believe in love. I believe in being affectionate. I believe in communicating. I believe in being vulnerable with someone who has earned access to that vulnerability. I believe a healthy relationship requires patience, compromise, forgiveness, and two people willing to learn each other.

But there's a difference between loving someone and abandoning yourself to keep them. I had to learn that difference. Maybe you do too.

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Behind the words

Written from experience.
With room to grow.

Mary Grace Manalastas

Obsessed With Her grew from personal lessons about love, communication, and remembering your own worth. These pages make room for affection and vulnerability while asking you to stay connected to your needs, your voice, and your life.